Thursday, 29 October 2009

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This is just random. A thought just struck me. How do people stay in a relationship for so long? Especially when it comes to the point of marriage.

Why am I thinking about such things out of the blue when my head is supposed to be buried in assignments?

Well, it started from my trip home yesterday when I mistook a couple to be in a relationship when they were actually just friends and then from there my ever curious mind started to drift on further and now, sitting here alone as I work on my assignment, the question has once again popped into my head.

How do you know the guy is the one to marry? What happens when a few years down the road you meet someone better? I mean there is always someone better right? Ok, maybe through dating you can do some trial and error with the guys you have dated in the past and then you just know that this guy is possibly the right one but when it comes to an arranged marriage? How do you know that guys is for you when you have never even dated before? I really need to know now. haha..who can I go ask? I have a cousin who is going to get married and happens to be an arranged one but unfortunately, I do not have the guts. Not that she is a scary person. It is just that I guess it is a personal matter...right? Who goes around describing the emotions they were having when they meet a guy for the first time and before they know it, they are going to marry that person because some how inside them, they just knew it.

Alright, the more I type, the more questions I have popping out. I better stop. Have more important questions to answer right in front of me in black and white prints. Grr.. Haha..


Adieu!

psst! I'd rather be writing a thousand words here than a thousand words report on disability and special needs. bluek!! Oops! =) Nevertheless, I still love what I am doing!

Signing Off On|Thursday, October 29, 2009|

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