"Relationships--of all kinds--are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly,and the relationship slips away and is lost."

-- Kaleel Jamison



A lesson not only for me but everyone so that we will not lose the ones we care for that easily.I guess it is all about space and individual's respect.Because, when you try to hold on to a person tightly for fear of losing him or her, you only end up suffocating them.Making them want to run from you.I realised that.So should you,you and you.Yes,all of you.

Distance does not necessarily mean avoidance.It means givng space and letting one explore around.It doesn't mean someone doesn't care or is losing interest in you.Not at all.Well, atleast for me.If your relationship is strong,you should not even doubt it at all.